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Understanding Abuse

Abuse isn’t just physical. It’s a pattern of controlling behavior — be it emotional, physical, financial, sexual or verbal — that one partner exerts over another. It could be withholding money, threatening to take the children away or humiliating and controlling every move.

It’s all abusive behavior that one person uses to control another person.

Understanding Abuse

What is abuse?

Domestic abuse comes in many forms as abusers seek to control their victims. That control can be financial, emotional, sexual, verbal or physical. And it may involve your children.  Read More>>

Abuse Definitions

Why do I feel this way?

Your emotions run the gamut — from guilt and denial to fear and confusion. And it's perfectly understandable. We help you work through your emotions and find a solution that leads to a violence-free life.  Read More>>

Understanding What Abuse Is

Why don't I leave?

Leaving an abusive relationship isn't easy. You may fear for your life or that of your children. You may be afraid, feel guilty or uncertain of what steps to take next. We can help.  Read More>>

Why Victims Stay

How does abuse affect my children?

Eighty to ninety percent of children living in homes where there is domestic violence are aware of the violence. How does this affect your children? And what can you do about it? We're here to help.  Read More>>

Abuse and the Children Involved

Safety plan

The most important thing is keeping you and your children safe. Safety plans are important for all environments — home, school or work.   Read More>>

Safety Plan

Internet and email safety

Computer use can be monitored and it is difficult to completely erase what sites you have visited or what emails you have sent. Your safety is most important — and we provide you with steps to clear your browser and use safe email practices   Read More>>

Internet and Email Safety